LuvCarmen

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Stella, girl, we need to get you back up on that horse! I'm gonna guess from your comment about something "ended badly" that what's keeping your groove away is psychological, not physical. (Though if you're depressed or taking lots of medications, that can scare a sex drive into hiding - that's something you should ask your doc about.) If I were a shrink, I'd tell you to talk through the damage from the last guy you were into, so you can move on. But here's what I'd do right away: join a gym, ideally one with some hot guys, and start exercising regularly - it'll get the blood flowing while giving you some sweaty eye candy to look at, which will spark up your sex memory. Then you've gotta give someone new a chance. Try going out with someone you maybe could be into, have a few drinks, make out with him, see where it leads. Sometimes, if you put the horse before the cart, you might find yourself wanting to get back on it.